Frost Moon Ritual

November 6th marks the Full Moon- Beaver Moon or Frost Moon. 

 At the Full Moon, the energy is powerful and intense. This surge enables you to take action – especially in regards to the New Moon intentions you may have set two weeks ago. Cleaning closets, getting winter clothing down and putting away summery things, friends that are no longer friends, shame, pain, anger- anything that is holding you back. This is a perfect time for releasing something that no longer serves you; or letting go of something that you no longer need in your life; or an opportunity to let go of an aspect of yourself that you have outgrown. A Full Moon ritual is a powerful way to invoke this- Releasing. Letting go. Unburdening yourself. Purging. You get rid of the old, celebrating your emergence by stepping out of an old way of being / an old identity / behaviour /  attitude / relationship / frame of mind / situation. The ritual marks this inner transformation in a formal, ceremonial way. Emphasising to yourself and the Universe that you are ready to let go for the new you to emerge. Making way for new magical opportunities to come to you. The easiest way to create and perform a ritual is to follow your intuition. But I'm going to offer some ideas from my own practice. Use them, and introduce some of your own things as well!

What you will need:

A quiet spot, water, a fireproof container, something to write with, paper, candle.

* Start by finding yourself a quiet spot where you will not be disturbed. If you can practice under the moonlight to feel her full beam, great, if not, no worries, as long as you are somewhere you feel safe and sound. 

* Create a sacred space- free of clutter- place a candle, a bowl of water, your favorite crystals or other special items, and anything else you want to represent this time in your life.

* Cleanse your area by smudging, or praying, meditating, or envisioning being enveloped in a bright white light that protects you.

* Close your eyes and slow your breath, taking deep, slow, cleansing breaths. Clear your mind and just listen to the sound of your breath.

* Write down what you no longer need. What (or whom) you want to free yourself of.

* Breathe deep into your root and say aloud, "I no longer need this, I now release you into the Universe".

* Light the paper and allow it to burn in your container, watching the smoke carry away what no longer serves you.

* Dip your fingers into the bowl of water and 'anoint' yourself with it, declaring "I am washed anew, and now I may began again". 

* Meditate on your breath once again, allowing the sound of your body to be the only thing you hear.

* Ground yourself with a bite of food, or drink, or walk into the grass with barefeet. Allow your energy to be centered and solid.

Please add or subtract whatever parts of this ritual that don't feel 'right' to you. I sometimes like to dress up with flowy gowns or glitter, head adornments and fun makeup.And instead of anointing myself with the water I sometimes drink it. And I usually finish my Full and New moon rituals off with a glass of wine. This is the time to create your own traditions. I promise there is no right or wrong way to create a ritual if you are coming from a loving and positive place. 

More things to do in the Full Moon Light

Cleanse your crystals by laying them in the moons light so they can gain her energy.

Create a crystal or oil essence to absorb the moon's strength and energy. 

Make "Full Moon" Water: Grab a mason jar (a clear glass container with a lid) and fill it with water (tap, spring, distilled) allow it to sit in the moons light all night and absorb the energy of her. I drink my water throughout the next few days, absorbing the Moons positive strength and energy.

Cleanse your tarot cards by allowing them to absorb the energy of the moon light. 

Remember, this is YOUR ritual, your time. there is no right or wrong way to do this. And have fun! This doesn't have to be such a solemn practice!

It's time to get Unfucked.

Sure, it's easy to sit on your ass all day and complain nothings ever going your way. It's easy to say this+this+this=my ruin. But really, is anything getting done if you're not doing it? The old saying "you want something done right, you do it yourself", is a saying because it's TRUE. Want to make and sell art? Then MAKE IT and SELL IT. Hmmm, but that sounds too good to be true. Nope. the people out there that you look up to/admire/envy all have something you don't. They bust their ass getting their shit done. All day every day. It's your time. Your time to have what you want in life. And I'm going to help you do it. I'm gonna help you UNFUCK YOUR LIFE.

LIST OF SEVEN

1. Cut the TV and FB off. Sorry, I love reruns of SVU as much as the next gal, and boy do I love looking at everybody's yummy food pics, and trying to figure out who's passive aggressively talking shit about whom...but it's a big fat 'ole time suck. 

2. Get yer butt to bed! Quit staying up till 2 playing some BS game on your phone, or staring at (again) the TV. Another quote? "Early to bed, early to rise" Man, I can get SO MUCH accomplished when I have a nice quiet house/studio to myself. I can work, clean, do what needs to be done and get it done before three!

3. Write a list. What do you need/have to do? Now, what do you want to get done? Do the need to first, and get as far as you can on the want to...if you don't finish that then slide it on over till tomorrow, but the need/have to do's are done! And that's how you get it done!

4. Cut off ALL distractions. I quit bringing my phone into my studio. I'd take a photo, then instagram it, then look at everyone else's instagram, then follow their links, then...day gone. ALL DISTRACTIONS, if that means petey the pooch is trying to play, send him out...pretend you're not home.

5. Quit procrastinating. You're gonna have to do the shit eventually. Might as well get it done, and then not only is it done, but it's not ramblin' around in your head, worrying you to death.

6. Quit shaming yourself. Yeah, so you had a shitty morning, so you laid on the couch and the next thing you know it's 2 o'clock...don't beat yourself up over it. BUT, don't let it happen tomorrow. It's the same with a diet or anything else...you fuck up, you start over, you win! 

7. No more "poor me, I'm so _____________________. "Fuck that shit. Yeah, you may be broke, you may be out of shape, you may be sad...but the only way to fix it is to GET OFF YOUR ASS and DO IT YOURSELF. You don't get to talk shit about yourself, believe me, there are plenty of folks out there breaking their necks to hate on you. Don't pull yourself down with the self hate. You ain't so broke that you ain't on a computer...You ain't so out of shape that you're dead...and You ain't so sad that you're debilitated...if you're reading this, then you're curious as to how you can get unfucked, which means, you still have hope. 

I'm not just writing this from some glass house in Utopia, btw. I go through this shit too. I get sad, I feel fat, I AM broke. But the only way I'm going to get help is to help myself. Stay positive, surround myself with people who love and understand me, and take care of my own biz. It really can be that easy. You can even start small...just say nothing but positive stuff to yourself all day. After that little self-confidence boost, tomorrow should be a piece of pie!

Honor Your Ancestors

Happy Samhain!!

Live in Abundance

Promise yourself that today you will live in abundance. You will welcome all things coming your way and learn from them ALL.

New Moon Rituals

The New Moon is Thursday and I feel the energy in the air getting tingly! The New Moon is a way for you to clean your energy and space(s) as well a commit to new intentions for the month. Little goal settings such as these will make you super productive(if you stick to them) and give you a little structure. And it's fun to create your own set of ritual that works for you. 

**A Rant On Ritual**

Folks always misconstrue the meaning of ritual...dictionary.com  defines ritual as: 

rit·u·al

ˈriCH(əw)əl/

noun

1. 1.

   a religious or solemn ceremony consisting of a series of actions performed according to a prescribed order.

   "the ancient rituals of Christian worship

adjective

Now you can be 'solemn' in all that you do. But the fact that you create a ritual around a date or time of year or a game or test or first date does not make you a wicked-or bad, or anti-christian, or any other ridiculous label others want to put on you out of fear of the unknown. I detest labels, and they always trip me up...maybe for fear of being pigeon holed and judged...maybe because I change so much one label wouldn't last a year. I have friends and family from all different walks of life and spirituality- Pagans, Catholics, Krishna, Hindu, Neo-Pagan, Wiccan, Atheist, Agnostic, "Christian" or plain and simple human. One of the things they all have in common is RITUAL. It may surround different circumstances and they may call it something different but its a ritual. So when you talk about creating a ritual, or when you begin a ceremonial ritual that is important to you and some ignorant person wants to judge you, you can either educate them OR tell them to fuck off...your choice!

**RANT OVER**

Where was I?!? Oh yeah;

Creating your own rituals based on the new moon or full moon or any other date is fun, like your own personal party and celebration for the Moon! With the new moon being the first moon of the new phase it's a good time to reset: bad habits, decisions, ethics- or to cleanse: yourself, energy, home. So plan your ritual with that in mind. A reset on all of your habits for the next month. Just a month of time where you try something a different way, and if you like it continue with it! Get creative! And for Goddess sake HAVE FUN!

1. 1.

   of, relating to, or done as a religious or solemn rite.

   "ritual burial"

2.    

   Some of my rituals include:

   Smudging my altar and tools

   Cleansing my tarot cards

   Releasing old habits ( I write them down and then burn them to release them)

   Setting New Intentions (write them down, draw them, create a vision wheel, start a journal something that you can see daily to remind you of your intention for yourself.)

   I usually start by cleaning my area; my studio and meditation space/altar are all together so it gets quite cluttered. I then smudge the area going to the four corners N/S/E/W and to the heavens above and the earth below giving thanks for my life and my health and good fortune. I then light candles and have a representative of earth, water, air, fire and spirit present on my table. I sit in meditation and just breathe before I start to think of what needs to be released...I then write them down on bits of paper and burn them in a fireproof container (I use an abalone shell). Then I journal about what I want to bring into my life and set my new goals(intentions) based on that. I sit once more in silence and breath then I give thanks to my Divine Spirit, and to the four corners of the earth and to the elements and then I begin to extinguish my flame. I usually do  a few yoga poses or eat something to 're-ground' my energy. And that's it! With the journaling that I do on my new intention I usually create an art piece of some sort as a reminder of my new moon intentions( art journal, vision board, style board, heck-you could even create something on pinterest!).

   The key is to set your intentions realistically, "I want to be a millionaire" is a great goal, but how will you accomplish that within a month?  Maybe instead, "I'll start setting back extra money, or not purchase a five dollar coffee three times a week" and place that money in a container in your sacred place so the good energy of your ritual and intent will envelope the cash. Set realistic goals that you can accomplish and then stay on it. 

   I love ceremony and ritual, and I'd love to hear from you! What are your sacred practices surrounding the New Moon? Leave a comment so we can learn more about one another...community is key to love and longevity!

      

Gratitude Is The Key To Abundance

Do you ever really think about what you're grateful for? Its so easy to get caught up in your day, and we as a society tend to complain constantly. But take the time to think about what you really have. How good it really is. And if you're one of those folks who say "I don't have much", I'm sure if you're online you have more than most! Start your day with a thought to all you DO have. End your day with a thanks for what you have. When you get pissed, let yourself be reminded of something great in your life...the positivity that you generate will pour out of you and slowly infect those around you. Be grateful, be thankful, be positive...it's sounds like no big deal, but it will effect the universe!